Before you try figuring out what the best way it is to make this man fall head over heels in love with you, it’s best to ask yourself if this is REALLY the man you want to fall head over heels in love with you. It might seem like the obvious question, but if you are more in love with the idea of being in love, then you’ll be leaving a wake of baffled, hurt and confused men on your trail instead of committing yourself to the one man you say that you want.
Before heading down a rabbit trail of advice and information, it should be pointed out that there is no ONE best way to make a man fall in love because there is no ONE type of guy on this earth. We are all different and individuals with different histories and different emotional baggage we carry around. With that understanding, there are a few things that can be done to increase his desire for you and ultimately his interest in declaring his undying love.
In the beginning of any relationship you both find yourselves attracted to each other. This is not love, so don’t confuse attraction or interest with emotional intimacy. Attraction comes from an inner beauty and confidence in yourself. You won’t have to look like Miss USA to attract the man of your dreams, but you will have to feel like Miss USA to exude the confidence and self-assurance that he’ll find attractive.
Be sure that he is the person you want to spend your time with and you aren’t interested just because you are lonely and want someone, anyone. Guys can sense your desperation and it’s a major turn-off. When a guy feels appreciated for the person he is and not the person you want him to be, you are well on your way to getting him to declare himself as yours, totally yours.
It is also important to be your authentic self during your courtship. It might be tempting to try to be exactly what you think he expects you to be, but it will only backfire later when he discovers that you really hate football, won’t go rock climbing cause you’re afraid of heights or really won’t live where there’s more than 2 inches of snow every winter. If you are not authentic about the small things, how can he trust you in the big things. It’s at that point that all your time and energy you put into developing a strong bond with this man will disappear. He just won’t be able to trust you.
The final step to creating an environment in which this man may fall in love with you is to give him your appreciation and unconditional respect. Men love respect. If you notice and appreciate the little things he does for you it will go a long way toward making him happy. And, even more important, if you love and respect him just the way he is without asking for changes or for him to fit into a mold you have ready and waiting, then he won’t be able to help falling madly in love with you.
If after you’ve appreciated him, respected him and accepted him, he still hasn’t declared himself . . . then he probably won’t and it’s time to leave. If he was on the fence he won’t let you go. If he wasn’t interested, then no amount of time or work was going to change his mind.
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